Struggling with sex?

Work with Pavini & have sex be easier.

At some point in our sexual lives, every one of us hits a bump in the road, and the way things used to be is now different. Some of us find our way to sexuality later in life, and some of us have a lot of healing to do within our erotic selves so that sex can be a place that is safe, comforting, and welcoming. From personal experience, I understand the journey home to erotic wholeness. It’s why I do this work. I want you to feel better, and feel more. Over the years, I’ve seen the results that healing sex can have in my life and the lives of my clients. Sex impacts every area of our lives.

To help you feel more and feel better in your sexuality, I offer compassionate sexuality support. I’m trained in a variety of modalities including Sexological Bodywork, Somatic Experiencing, and Somatic Coaching. When you’re tired of struggling with sex, intimacy and desire, be in touch and together we’ll get you where you want to be.

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Somatic Sex Therapy

Somatic Sex Therapy helps you meets your unique goals for your erotic and sexual self.  In sessions, we will discern your areas of challenge,  and shift those stuck places.  Often, we work on issues like desire, libido, communication, boundaries, trauma release, increasing orgasmic potential, and all kinds of relationship issues.  I especially love to work with people with marginalized gender and sexual identities: queer, fat, trans, gender fabulous, or kinky.  I’ve developed unique bodies of work to facilitate erotic wellness for each of these identities. 


Receiving massage can help you practice receiving other things.

Sexological Bodywork

Sexological Bodywork is  hands-on erotic education. Sexological Bodywork teaches students to learn a body- and practice-based approach to being human. We practice feeling in our bodies, and noticing sensations and emotions. We practice the erotic self we wish to become. We commit to practicing more of what we want in our lives. Like erotic yoga instructors, Sexological Bodyworkers guide and support clients in mindful erotic practice over time.

Receiving Sexological Bodywork can help with sexual difficulties, as well as enhance pleasure, body awareness, sexual and erotic energy, and orgasmic potential.   Sexological Bodywork can help with orgasm difficulty, sexual problems and sexual communication.  I am continually surprised by the deep way touch and pleasure heal trauma and help the body restore goodness.  Sexological Bodywork is certified by the State of California as a hands-on modality of erotic education.



Somatic Sex Therapy for Couples

Often,  sex and intimacy breakdowns are a barometer for communication issues in relationships. The couples I serve are working at coming to a sexual relationship that meets their needs at this point in time. Somatic sex therapy for couples  helps remove some of the inhibitors we develop to free erotic expression with one another. Together, we work at developing the foundational skills for intimacy, trust, connection and touch, to help you and your sweetie feel closer and have the sex life you want.

Ready for compassionate sexuality support?


Legal Notice:With reference to California Penal Code section 647(b) and CALCRIM Nos. 1153 to 1155,the services discussed herein do not in any way include or relate to either(1) engagement in any lewd act for money or other consideration, or (2) solicitation, offer, or agreement to engage in any lewd act for money or other consideration.   Emancipating Sexuality is a private practice in San Francisco that offers sex therapy, sex coaching, SexologicalBodywork,  masturbation coaching, and sexual trauma release to adult clients and couples seeking sexual healing, especially those in lesbian, gay, queer, transgenderfat and intersex communitiesSexological Bodyworkers offer experiential sex education

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